When I was a kid, I used to be a big daydreamer. I had always imagined that someone would propose by going down on his knees and give me flowers! But with time, I realized you have to be lucky to get these. So before going for an arranged marriage, I had given up the hope that any such thing would happen to me. I wasn’t sad to give up this hope though. I had accepted it Continue reading “The proposal!”
So before him leaving for the US, we met for lunch.
On a Saturday we met at a restaurant. Having ordered, we started to talk. I was slowly getting comfortable. I let him know that I will continue pursuing my dream after getting married, and that I need full support understanding from him if we ever get married. He agreed to this. Just an initial agreement. Things seemed positive. After the lunch he asked me if we could go to a nearby mall, I said no. It would Continue reading “The formal 2nd meeting (not a date)”
So I have been asked out by men before. I have said no. Because I didn’t feel they were the right one for me. But saying no wasn’t great. I tried to be supportive to them as much as possible. Some of them were really obsessed with me. I used to avoid these men. I do not like playing with emotions of men if I have no intention of being with them in the future. Some are still in contact with me, who are my friends, which is great!
I would like to tell you that I believe in God. It helps me cope up with the hurdles of life. So you must be wondering what has this gotta do with turning down proposals. Read on….. Continue reading “Turning down proposals…”
So my mum had showed me his pic, and I was the least interested in him among all other men that she chose for me. Yet, she managed to convince me to meet him once.
One day, he came to to my house with his parents. We didn’t talk initially. We were suggested by his dad to talk if we wanted to. He immediately stood up. I was Continue reading “I met him”