So here is the thing. I am getting married in the middle of my PhD. Is it a good idea? I mean, I like him a lot, and I want to get married. But what if this decision hampers my PhD process? I will not be able to bear with it. To me, my PhD is even more important than my own life. But if it gets affected because of marriage then I will not be able to forgive myself.
Sometimes I think I have taken the wrong decision to get married at this point in life, when I am in the middle of my PhD. But I really want to get married now you know. I have never felt I wanted to be with someone until last year. After 25 years, I have finally felt that I wanted to be with someone, be emotionally invested into someone. And I really feel comfortable with this guy, so much so that I don’t even want to let him go. But what if this new addition in my personal life leads to me being distracted from my PhD? I really don’t know what to do. I just can’t see what lies ahead and this is making me more nervous. But I want both, my PhD and him. Is it a crime to want both?